Legal reasons not to date before divorce As far as the courts are concerned, you are still legally married until the divorce is finalized.In states that recognize fault in a divorce case, dating during divorce can be viewed as adultery.
You will most likely have ongoing contact with your husband after the divorce because of the children.
Dating during divorce can poison the spirit of cooperation and affect your life for a long time after the divorce is final (and possibly after your boyfriend is history).
By Tracy Achen If you are thinking about dating during divorce ... You may think that you are free to start a new relationship once the decision is made to separate or divorce.
But it is wise to hold off on the dating scene until after your divorce is finalized for a number of strategic, legal, and emotional reasons.
He may try to even the score by fighting about custody of the children or how to split the marital estate.